Wow! It is seriously
amazing how much stuff you can accumulate by your thirties. When we moved in together – we had two sets
of just about everything (dishes, furniture, etc) and we never were forced to
make decisions about it because we could always put it into the attic. This all changed last year when we found out
we were moving to England…and realized we’d have to get all of our possessions
ready to move across the pond.
I was really lucky to read a variety of diplo-spouse and
military family blogs – they offered the best advice! Since the military was moving us, I took
careful notes and jotted down many tips along the way. I’m so lucky to benefit from the collective
wisdom of the interwebs – it made moving day that much easier.
For all of those PCS-ing (federal speak – Permanent Change of
Station aka moving!) – a few tips from our experience:
Purge, Purge, Purge: We spent the past year pulling down boxes from the attic, stretching to the top of our closets, and checking out the backs of drawers to find anything and everything we could purge. We would always ask the question “Have we used this in the last year or is it a necessity?” If the answer was no, we sent it immediately to Good Will or trash. The less stuff you have, the easier it is to move.
Buy Bins and Label Them Early: We organized all of our closets and attic with clear plastic bins courtesy of Costco. After we reviewed each bin, we labeled them with the contents and determination of: move or storage. This allowed us to prepare months in advance and have everything organized and ready to go when the movers arrived.
Make It Clear What’s Going Where: Before the movers show up, make sure it’s very, very clear what is going into storage or being sent via the mail. We found it easiest to make a large pile of those boxes and also rope off a closet and relevant cabinets in the kitchen. Despite all of my preparation, I was stunned by how quickly the movers and packers descended upon my house --- I was SO glad we had already organized and labeled everything so there were no questions or in-the-moment decisions.
Find a Good Solution for Your Pet: There are horror stories of cats being packed in boxes during pack out! Alfie hung out with us all day in his crate / on a leash, but if you have a bigger dog or hard to handle cat, it’s much easier to send them to the groomer, doggie day care, or a friend’s home for the day. On a related note – if you are moving internationally, make sure to check the pet import regulations early. We had to start the process for Alfie to join us almost 6 months ago. More on that in another post

I hope this is helpful to someone out there! I feel like I need to pay it forward after
reading up from so many blogs over the past year. Special thanks to the
Diplomatic Wife and Well that Was Different.